Thursday, December 31, 2020
Day - 1089
Tuesday, December 29, 2020
Cleaning up at home, organizing, and reading. I see High Stakes Poker is back on the air with Gab Kaplan and AJ Benja on the PokerGo network. Worth obtaining an annual subscription just to see this acclaimed poker show. Nice!
I have such a high stack of books I'm reading right now. Too many books.
Day - 1096
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
Really enjoyed this on YouTube:
I seem to get sicktracked from reading A Promised Land. Only 600 pages left! It's cold outside and hard to run or do anything beyond staying warm inside.
Day - 1097
Monday, December 21, 2020
This morning, Chris, Fred, Brian and I had a great conversation about our Grandudes table reading and how organized and professional Heather's group was. Everyone enjoyed it.
Continued reading Stony the Road, which is so good. I'm finished up chapter 3. I'm 150 pages in and have two chapters left. The negative messaging of blacks after Reconstruction and into the Redemption period that brought about Jim Crow laws is really informative and speaks to the rampant racism that exists to this day.
Day - 1098
Sunday, December 20, 2020
Had a short morning session with Chris about yesterday's Table Reading.
Watched a funny SNL Beethoven skit from the past that I'd never seen before. Funny!
Day - 1099
Saturday, December 19, 2020
Chris and I had our table reading today. Really fun and thrilling to hear a few actors read our lines. I loved it. We began at 2 and ended at 4. Once our recording is up, I'll capture a few images.
Day - 1102
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
We had a meaningful Wednesday Elders session this morning. Dorian had an agenda all lined up, but it was thrown off track when Glenn interrupted the morning prayer, saying he didn't feel comfortable with morning prayers by the same person every week. So after 30 minutes of discussion, we decided to rotate the morning opening. It was something that had come up a few times before but was never settled. Now it is. What came from that was a series of talks about religion in the U.S., and how faith and God and religion have been used by black and white followers. Dorian reminded me that slaves were killed for reading the Bible and even learning to read. The stories from Caste are still in my head. America needs an intervention in 2021. It does not like criticism of itself, and yet there is so much to criticize.
This is one of my favorte SNL commercials...Beck Bennett never disappoints.
Day - 1109
Wednesday, December 9, 2020
Lots of work today, along with a 30-minute planning call with Michelle Silverthorn, a diversity speaker who will present at Hanson Bridgett next week. Very nice woman.
Day - 1110
Tuesday, December 8, 2020
Emailed the latest draft of our Grandudes script to Fred and Heather. Looking forward to the 19th!
Ordered Pakastani food tonight from DoorDash, a break from what we've recently had for dinner. It was delish!
Day - 1111
Monday, December 7, 2020
Working and proofing Grandudes today. Had our Monday 5-6 meeting with my racquetball gang, then Grandudes revisions with Chris at 7. I'll send the script to Heather and Fred tomorrow morning. Glad that's behind me!
Day - 1113
Saturday, December 5, 2020
I spent most of the day revising Grandudes. Chris and I got together around 3 and went over changes for two hours. We received toques in the mail from Chris and Elizabeth! How nice!
Day - 1112
Sunday, December 5, 2020
Brought over butter tarts, which we've been eating!
A full day of revising today.
Day - 1118
Monday, November 30, 2020
Lots going on. Updating Grandudes again for a December 19th table reading. Not a lot of changes going on, but enough to absorb several hours. Chris and I talked at 7 tonight and went over a few changes we needed to make.
Ordered a few Christmas gifts. I'm about 30% done.
Bought this book, which is coming on Wednesday.
Day - 1119
Sunday, November 29, 2020
A day of rest and baking. I made pie dough for butter tarts, banana bread, and raisin bread in the bread machine.
Day - 1120
Saturday, November 28, 2020
Yesterday was so much fun we decided to go on another day trip to Hakone Estate and Gardens, a Japanese garden in Saratoga, CA, about 1 hour away. Wow, it was fantastic!
After lunch, we went to the new K-Market Korean grocery and picked up a few things for dinner and tomorrow's dinner. Great store, new, clean, and full of all kinds of different things to try.
Another great day in the Bay Area. If we can't be tourists around the globe, we'll be tourists in our back yard!
Day - 1122
Thursday, November 26, 2020
It was full-on feast that included clams. From now on, clams is a must for Thanksgiving. Wow, what a spread Alice put on. So incredibly delicious! Along with a full skillet of clams in wine sauce, we had two cornish game hens over a bed of diced butternut squash, bbq ribs that we cooked downstairs, spinach, and pumpkin pie for dessert. I ate so much I wasn't able to do anything else afterward, even watch TV.
Day - 1121
Friday, November 27, 2020
We woke up early, packed up the bikes and were out the door by 9 for our day trip to Yountville, CA. Alice had been talking about riding bikes in Napa all week. Luckily, the day was perfect, blue skies, no wind, around 70 degrees, what could be better than a post-TG Fridays like this one. We arrived around 10, found a spot to park in the middle of town, and away we went.
Such a wonderful day!
Even traffic coming home was easy and nice.
We came home, had leftovers from last night, then watched the final two episodes of The Queen's Gambit. Fitting conclusion to a fine first season. I loved the triumphant conclusion in which everyone helps Beth beats Russia's best, who takes defeat like a gracious champion (unlike someone we all know, who never learned how to lose (never learned how to lose...what a sad, sick loser)).
Day - 1128
Friday, November 20, 2020
Day 1 of my 3-day Facilitation training. We had 20+ participants. Zoom works suprisingly well for this, and it's organized nicely with a couple of interns and trainers. Mun Wah is excellent at this.
We began at 9 a.m. We introduced each other, then went into dyads for an exercise involving listening. I was paired up with a woman named Nayeli from Holister, CA. She is Mexican descent. We shared stories of our childhood and worked through the assigned exercise with ease. It was a pleasure meeting her. We used pages from our handbook (p. 8, 10).
At lunch, I was grouped with Lynette and Mai. Lynette is from Wisconsin and Mai from Fairfax, VA. We were asked to share an emotion we have difficulty expressing. It was a good conversation.
After lunch, we worked through another exercise involving reflection and inquiry, repeating what the speaker said and then asking for more information about the subject matter the speaker brought up. Basically, these are ways of enforcing listening and acknowledging to conversations before getting to the question, "what do you need from me?" Too often, this question is asked first without first establishing that the speaker was heard and acknowledged.
We had one final exercise before our first day ended at 3 p.m.
I spent the rest of the day relaxing, organzing, reading. I watched The Social Dilemma on NetFlix. Good.
Day - 1134
Saturday, November 14, 2020
Back with Alice today. So happy! We met up with Alice's cousin Lillian and her husband William for lunch at a really great restaurant on Washington St. in the Financial District. We ate outside beneath heating lamps. The day turned out to be sunny, but not too warm. We had oysters, a delicious white sausage, and a lamb meat pie. Everything was so good. Dessert was a brioche carmelized in a rich carmel sauce with a scoop of ice cream on top. Loved it! It was so nice seeing Lillian and William.
We came home around 3:30, rested, had dinner at 7, then watched two episodes of The Queen's Gambit on NetFlix. Good!








































